Okay seriously guys I already had the most brilliant idea to talk about but it slipped away! Argh. I hate when this happens. The topic is related to the title but I can't ingat balik! BARU JE KOT. Haih. It's okay.
I have another thing to share, it has been in my head for quite awhile. (title xde kena mengena dgn my current topic) So I guess I'll just talk about it. In order to make this idea successful, I had to ask random people a question. I decided to just ask people on Facebook IM. The question was "What is a boyfriend/girlfriend to you?". Here are their answers.
a boyfriend is someone who can be our bestfriend and our boyfriend at the same time . someone who listens to our problems , and give advices . he also will protect us . and most important thing is , he's sincere towards us
- The Legendary Atika Rosli xD
tempat kita bercerita!kdg2 bess bila ad sm0ne nehh. kdg2 myktkann HATIII!!! tp okayy lahh. xd lahh bosann. - Muhammad Noor Hafiz
a boyfriend/girlfriend is sumone who u could depend on when ur in need or listen to you when in pain. He/she should be sumone who could protect you from danger and not take advantage on you- Fatin Najat
hmmmm , a boyfriend . Someone that i usually turn to when I'm sad emmm , When i need him . Share secrets , And most probably , he always by my side when i need him :'D hehehe - Dinah Khairina
boyfriend/girlfriend is a person that we need to fill up our heart and a place where we can share happiness or sadness, and support each other, other than family. Bf/gf is not for a person to fool and use for their own benefit - Afiqah Anwar
well to me...girlfriend is a someone that u care about or love...its phase before marriage..before engagement..but the thing is..people nowadays..suka like..to "Mintak Couple"...to me that idea is kinda lame la..i mean think it this way...the word "mintak"..its like..showing ur desperation...i prefer the "mat salleh" way they dont ask "Can u be my girlfriend/boyfriend?"...they asked "WOULD u be my girlfriend/boyfriend?".. - Hilmi Afandi (I strongly support his opinion)
I agree with all stated above. But it seems that a boyfriend/girlfriend is something beautiful to most of us. It all comes down to the heart. The intension. I think many of us, have misused this special thing. Like, we see people getting into a relationship that lasts less than a week. I don't have to mention those that lasts for a day. Stupid. -.-
Break up sebab bosan. Go die lah. Bangang. Separations to me are beautiful. Well, for SOME cases. Divorce is not one of them. I know that. I mean, when people separate but they just can't get their mind straight. The feeling that you can't live without them. That's beautiful.
Honestly, I don't find it any harm if any of us teenagers get into a special relationship with another person unless it doesn't affect us negatively. Lol it adds excitement in life what :D We'll get that tingling feeling in our tummy. Tidur tak nyenyak, makan tak kenyang. But still, most of us don't get it.
Their main reason is to be cool. They think that their grade of awesomeness will add up when they got a partner. Just to be accepted in this society. Teenagers these days. And those who have sex. Haihh. It's just so wrong. SO wrong.
Well, that's all that I have to say. If you're planning to be in a relationship, be serious about it and don't go breaking up after 1 day. Get to know that person better than take the second move. Alright.
Assalamualaikum! And thanks guys for answering me! <3